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Coping with Change in the Church

Coping with ChangeOne of the key things I have learnt over the years is that every individual will deal with change differently. Their course of action will depend not only on the person (and his or her skills and temperament) but on the situation he or she is facing, and how major it is. In many cases, individuals get caught-up in change very quickly and then try to cope on a just-in-time basis, using tactics that are often invented on the spot. Although these can sometimes work, most often they don’t. There are a number of well thought-through approaches and models that have been developed over the years to help us understand the psychology of change and how we might better cope with it. Three of the ones I use are described below.

Kurt Lewin

Kurt Lewin’s simple three-step approach, still popular since being put forward in the 1940s, says that we must first overcome the inertia that we confront when attempting to change something.
Coping with ChangeLewin explains that people’s mindsets are “frozen” around the current approach (“we’ve always done it that way”). So first, we have to dismantle the existing structures that reinforce the status quo – what he called the process of “unfreezing,” showing, for example, how or why something isn’t working well, creating an awareness of a better possibility.

Secondly, we have to introduce the change – we can’t simply let go of something secure and try to grasp nothing; there must be a new way, new approach, or new structure to grab hold of. We also have to expect that the change experience will typically be confusing and uncertain. We don’t know how things work, processes are unfamiliar, and unexpected challenges or issues will confront us.

Thirdly, we have to then “re-freeze” mindsets around the new approach; we don’t want the old ways returning, so it’s vital that the new approach is embedded and locked in. This is usually accomplished by reinforcement thinking at a personal level and by creating supporting teams and individuals who can support one another and avoid backsliding. Ideally, people then come to internalize the new approach.

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross became well-known for her work on grief, especially her 1969 book, “On Death and Dying,” in which she introduced the stages people typically go through when grieving. The stages she identified can also be applied to what we do in life and include loss of familiar ways of doing things, change in responsibilities, team members and friends leaving, etc. Even when there is something new to work with and new opportunities, it is typical for us to grieve what we’ve had to let go of.

Kübler-Ross identified five stages of grief: Denial…Anger…Bargaining…Depression…Acceptance. Later work applied her work to any major change, but added other steps in the process, such as the initial “shock” phase and the addition of an “Experiment” phase. These extra steps are shown in the diagram below:

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Jeff Hiatt

Unlike Lewin and Kubler-Ross, who both attempted to identity how the change process works, Jeff Hiatt’s AKDAR model (put forward in his 2006 book “ADKAR: a Model for Change in Business, Government and our Community: How to Implement Successful Change in our Personal Lives and Professional Careers” presents 5 building blocks that individuals can use to deal with personal change or help others to manage a change.

Hiatt’s “AKDAR” model:

  • Building Awareness of why the change is needed
  • Developing Knowledge of how to change
  • Creating Desire to support and participate
  • Fostering Ability to implement new skills, behaviours
  • Providing Reinforcements to sustain the change

The AKDAR model is a useful reminder about how important it is for us to take an intentional and positive approach to change processes, so that change becomes a reality and the break with the past is clear.

So what can we say about coping with change in summary?

In general, all three of the above models have some common themes about change. Things like it being a journey or progression, occurring in clear stages, breaking with the past way of doing things, beginning with developing awareness of why change is needed.

Knowledge about how to change and fostering this ability are vital to: a) building one’s own or others’ confidence in the new approach and b) embedding the new way in their behaviour. Once people are acting a certain way they are able to take ownership of the approach – it’s much more real than simply hearing about an idea or concept.

Of course, in some change processes there will be those who simply cannot or will not make the change. This becomes a challenging situation – how long do you try to help them and at what point do they make the decision for themselves that they simply won’t be staying with you on this journey? This is not a question with a “one-size-fits-all” solution. Some people need longer to process the change, but you can only move at the pace of the slowest member for so long. If you’re genuinely trying to help individuals (not simply force them into agreeing), most people will at least try to understand. The support and encouragement of others is vital in these circumstances. But at some point people must be part of the new way or they cannot remain part of the future. Part of breaking with the past is making this point clear to people – and treating those who won’t make the journey of change with dignity and respect. Not being willing to change doesn’t make someone a difficult or “bad” person, and everyone has the right to make those decisions – but of course such decisions have consequences.

© 2013. Dr. Jon Warner. Adapted and used with permission.

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Colin Noyes

Colin Noyes is a Brisbane (Australia) based coach and consultant with extensive experience in the areas of organisational health and growth, change management, leadership development, recruiting/staff development and coaching. Read more

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